Throughout the blog and in in-class discussions, a very hot topic has been the debate about Mama Elena and her true intentions – if she was a cruel or good parent. However, let us disregard this argument for a while. In a way, Mama Elena may have actually positively helped Tita in her personal character development. Is it not because of Mama Elena’s strict and harsh treatment on Tita that Tita has such an angry and determined will? Or happenings such as Tita being forced to resew her stitches because she did not baste it (page 12)?. It is also reasonable to say that Tita’s mental and physical strength against suffering was improved with the beatings that she got. In addition, by “getting hit in the face with a wooden spoon”, as discussed in Kelvin’s earlier post, Tita suffered a lot but even resulted in a better place. Because of the torture inflicted on Tita, she developed an extremely strong spirit as an adult. Do you agree? Please understand, however, that I am not saying that I support Mama Elena’s actions. I am just saying that Mama Elena’s actions, which we mostly regard as cruel, may have had an indirect positive effect on Tita.
January 24, 2007
Mama Elena, Tita, & Character Development
Posted by jiunruey! =) under a question of character[2] Comments
January 24, 2007 at 3:34 am
I agree that Mama Elena’s treatment of her children is especially unfair and grossly unnecessary, I do think that her treatment of Tita helped Tita to become the woman she is today. If Elena followed the tradition of youngest daughter serving mother until death but was nice and caring towards Tita, Tita might have felt obligated towards actually taking care of her mother because they had such a close relationship. Tita might also have felt guilty when she was with Pedro because her mother was nice.
As you can see, Elena’s treatment definitely made Tita choose to do somethings that she would not have done if Elena was nice. But Tita could also have reached the point where she is now – strong, independent, good at house work and cooking – if Elena didn’t treat Tita the way she did but instead taught Tita how to be strong.
And so, like many people have said (with frustrated sighs), we should probably stop wondering about “what if?”s, because that will just lead us in circles.
January 24, 2007 at 3:36 am
Sorry, I just re-read my comment and noticed a few mistakes in there. =_= My brain isn’t working very well today.
The “toward” is supposed to be to. There was another one, but I just lost it. Sorry!